Why I don’t look super rich – all the time ;-)
It’s muddy weather in Germany currently – autumn has done it’s job and shaken down all leafes and winter hasn’t come yet – although it’s Christmas within less than 10 days. So today I went out with alpin shoes to keep my feet dry and and a jacket with the same super skill to keep me warm and dry. Before I left I looked at myself in the mirror and smiled. Just find it funny when people extremly underestimate who they are dealing with, which also reminded me seeing a German rock star who looked quite rotten – while I was sitting in the Atlantic hotel just some days ago.
Years ago one of my ex-boyfriends said: „Hey, there is no designer furniture in your apartment and you are driving a small car. You CAN’T be that successful.“ As you notice – there is a reason why he is not my boyfriend any more …
Over the years I’ve tried different models how to live:
- living in a small apartment with a small car – and a separate office,
- living in a huge house with a big car and office in the house and currently
- living in a small apartment with a fancy car and a lot of traveling.
Everyone has to find his or her optimal way of living and doing and even this changes over time.
When I moved out of the house after while I felt so released from all the work and responsibilities which such a house brings with it and I actually don’t like to have people in my house to clean and do the garden. I feel this as kind of hurting my privacy – at least with some of the staff, it’s difficult and takes time to find the right people, but when I was busy and living there – there was no other way.
So when you plan your ideal life and day – it’s worth to think about that.
Dating and Loving
When I go to dates first few times I usually use public transport, a taxi or I park my car in a way that the guys don’t see it. Why that?
What I noticed is that some men become actually afraid of my car OR unconscious patterns arise like: A woman who own such a car (and bought it herself without help of a man) is no woman for me (the man). Men want to care for women, they want to be there for them. If a woman is obviously very independent – especially if this is the case financially too – that woman just does not fit into men’s cro-magnon patterns. So it is.
Do I lie, do I cheat? – I play!
I do play with life, try out different things and when I notice one way works better than another I use the way that works better.
Did you ever think of taking life more experimental?
- What might come out of that?
- What might come out for you that could enrich your life?
These days I am in process of re-designing my dream life blog and was also thinking about changing my pictures. When I chose them I thought this would fit best my world traveller personality, but people who meet me in real life in Europe or the US – or let’s say so „the western world“ see someone quite different. So actually I am many … and may be my pictures should reflect that…
What about YOU?
Dream Life Assignment
- How could you approach life more experimental to enrich your life or even come closer to your dream life?
Dare to live your dream life! You are worth it!